by bianca | Jul 1, 2010 | Uncategorized
Expecting to give. Expecting to learn. Expecting to do, be, love. Expectations set guards and boundaries and safe-zones. But life is full of unexpecteds. When we are faced with the unexpected, it’s as if a full length mirror of self-realization displays the most...
by bianca | Jun 30, 2010 | Uncategorized
In the Chemrec slums of Nairobi my heart was stolen by a boy named Freddie. Every face I ran into in the slum was beautiful, but Freddie had this thing. You know, the thing Simon Cowell refers to as the X-Factor. He’s sassy and funny and adorable and has skin...
by bianca | Jun 29, 2010 | Uncategorized
Unfortunately I’m still waiting to find that rich Nairobi prince who emails me randomly telling me that he’ll give me one million dollars if I wire some money to him in a private off-shore account. If I see him I’ll tell him that I visited displaced...
by bianca | Jun 28, 2010 | Uncategorized
Departing the plane in Kenya there was a small part of me expecting to see Sally Struthers standing in an arid patch of dessert surrounded by emaciated children shouting, You can save the children! Or maybe I’d see a giraffe. Or maybe hear someone say, Hakuna...
by bianca | Jun 25, 2010 | Uncategorized
If you’re not careful we’re gonna make a profile for you on an online dating site, the teens in youth group teased and laughed hysterically. As they jested, I made a mental note to myself that online dating is a joke; yes, it’s reserved for those who...
by bianca | Jun 24, 2010 | Uncategorized
She’s always made me do things I didn’t want to do. Like stealing food from the pantry when we were little. And pushing her down a slide into a pool when she had a full-leg cast. And breaking up with the man I thought I loved in college. And getting a...